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Personal Reaction, a Reflection of Dislike in Yourself?
“If you hate a person, you hate something in him that is part of yourself.” Herman Hesse’s, Demian Hate may be a strong word, but all of us have experienced that feeling of instantly being repelled when meeting someone. They just “rub us the wrong way,” right? Well, not exactly. It’s actually a reflection of…
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The Power of the Past in Performance
Present Performance = Past No, it is not time to lay down on the counseling couch and hold a box of tissue and talk about your past. It is time to talk about what really drives present performance, which I’m sorry to say, is the past. Specifically, unresolved trauma . Over and over, I see…
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What You Resist Not Only Persists, It GROWS Until You Deal With It
[vc_row][vc_column][vc_empty_space][vc_column_text]What is your biggest challenge right now? Is it what you are resisting most? This is almost always the case. Here’s why: The unconscious mind is responsible for all Learning, Behavior and Change. Not your conscious mind. Not you telling yourself over and over, “I’m going to deal with this today.” or, “No matter what,…
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I Have To Do It, Why Can’t I?
Even when we know we have to do something, because it’s in our best interest, or helps others or our family, it’s not enough to tell yourself you have to do it. See, your head is wired through your heart. And, you can’t simply tell your mind to do something that your heart isn’t committed…